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Ever wonder why we only recognize the best moments after they’ve slipped by? This episode dives into the ache of missing wonderful chapters, even as you’re living them. From leaving behind messy apartments and old relationships to the science of nostalgia, regret, and derealization. It’s all about why we struggle to notice the good stuff when it’s right in front of us, and how to start being present before it’s too late.

How You Hold You Back #advice #lifeadvice #moderndating Full episode https://f.mtr.cool/ahanqbykqs

Have you ever felt like a fraud? Here's why. #moderndating #lifeadvice #datingover50

They don't want you to know you have a way out #relationshipadvice #moderndating #advice https://youtu.be/s8Meiqz2WCE

You're letting an 8th grader tell you what to do #relationships #lifeadvice #moderndating https://youtu.be/s8Meiqz2WCE

How do you see yourself, and how do others see you? One summer, everything changed for me on the outside. On the inside? Not so much. This episode explores why we never really feel like we fit, even when the world says we do. If you’ve ever felt like you’re faking it, this one’s for you.

Things get interesting when you are all out of options #lifeadvice #relationships #thingsyoudontseecoming https://youtu.be/w7mzhNY5hgE

Discover why "boring" could be your most thrilling adventure yet! #ExcitingLife #moderndating #lifeadvice Check out the full episode here: https://youtu.be/w7mzhNY5hgE

What I learned from living in a hotel. #relationshipadvice #moderndating #lifeadvice https://youtu.be/w7mzhNY5hgE

I’ve been living in a hotel with my dog, Holly. Not on vacation, but stuck between homes, routines, and tourists in the elevator.  This week, I discuss holding it together when nothing feels familiar while pretending everything is fine on the air. I’m also realizing that "boring" might have been the best phase all along. 

When they're too stupid to realize what's happening until it's already done. How to figure out if that's you. #dumb #moderndating #lifeadvice

A quick detour before the next full episode drops. These are the moments listeners keep messaging me about. The parts where I apparently said something honest enough that it stuck. If you’re new, this is a good place to start. If you’ve been here since the beginning, thanks for staying.

You can date anyone you want, but why would you want to? #datingapps #relationships #lifeadvice https://youtu.be/wPKYJZ54K_c

Usefulish is all about the weird threads between the past and the present. The outdated customs, bizarre social rules, and how none of us are as evolved as we think. This is another show I created and I think it fits right in with the current Girls Can Tell vibe.  Curiosity, psychology, and how similar humans are to the way humans have always been. 

What happens in your mind when they tell you something you don't want to hear? #relationshipadvice #moderndating #lifeadvice

My dating app screening process filters out 98% of matches before the first date, and has a 100% success rate with those who make it through. I'll take you from swipes to relationships, how I protect my time and why being picky at 50 is so important. 15 minutes on the reality of dating when you know what you want.

Why You Can Never go Back #moderndating #datingover50 #lifeadvice https://youtu.be/8wns5T26wwI?si=IXID7n03z39fyJqT

I'll bet you think you know what you should be training for now that AI is coming for your job, right? You have no idea. Find out what you should be focused on in this week's episode. #aiadvice #rekationship #lifeadvice

We all want to know how AI will take over your job and life. it's all spelled out in this week's episode! #relationshipadvice #datingadvice #moderndating

AI isn't "just a tool" anymore. And soon, you will be. We lay out the phases from helpful assistant to human obsolescence, why every job's vulnerable, why the experts are full of shit, and what you can do about it now. This is a 20 minute wake-up call you can't afford to miss. Seriously, I don't know why you're even still reading this, go listen! 

There's a reason why she's dancing this way. Find out about why she has such a carefree attitude in this week's episode! #relationshipadvice #datingadvice #moderndating

You want to dance like this woman? Who wouldn't. Find out how in the new episode #relationshipadvice #lifeadvice #moderndating

Come check out the most talked about episode ever now. All new super episode Tuesday. #relationshipadvice #moderndating #datingover50

This is a replay of one of the most popular episodes from days gone by on girls can tell, because episode 27 is taking a considerable amount of time because there's a lot of research going into it. It's going to be an extra important, extra long, action-packed episode and everything you ever dreamed a podcast could be, and almost too much, quite frankly. You might never listen to another podcast again after hearing it, which is next Tuesday. This Tuesday, we're going to listen back to a classic, 608 Yous. I hope you're sitting down.