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What's left for you while everyone is chasing younger? #moderndating #relationshipadvice #datingover50 Full episode here https://f.mtr.cool/qnwwtjkqpn

How to Find Love #moderndating #datingapps #relationships

This episode breaks down why the dating pool feels smaller than ever, what happens when you have to be better than someone's already good life, and how to handle age gap relationships. Plus, a listener question about dating younger women.

Here's why you might never find someone using a dating app and what to do instead #moderndating #datingapps #lifeadvice

If you're out there on the apps, you need to hear this week's episode! We explain why you can't find your person and how to turn things around. We'll have you in a relationship with someone great before Santa comes. #moderndating #datingapps #relationshipadvice https://youtu.be/XmSksNcwcpk

Dating apps promised unlimited options. Instead, most of us got ghosting, burnout, and five half-assed chats at once. This week, we're getting deep into why good people can’t focus on one person, and how choice overload means you’re always one swipe away from being replaced. It's not something you're going to want to miss. 

How to appreciate the moment you're in #relationships #moderndating #advice full episode here https://f.mtr.cool/gympkjcyvf

Why you haven't lived a day in your life #advice #relationships #moderndating get the full episode here https://f.mtr.cool/hauncyygev

Ever wonder why we only recognize the best moments after they’ve slipped by? This episode dives into the ache of missing wonderful chapters, even as you’re living them. From leaving behind messy apartments and old relationships to the science of nostalgia, regret, and derealization. It’s all about why we struggle to notice the good stuff when it’s right in front of us, and how to start being present before it’s too late.

How You Hold You Back #advice #lifeadvice #moderndating Full episode https://f.mtr.cool/ahanqbykqs

Have you ever felt like a fraud? Here's why. #moderndating #lifeadvice #datingover50

They don't want you to know you have a way out #relationshipadvice #moderndating #advice https://youtu.be/s8Meiqz2WCE

You're letting an 8th grader tell you what to do #relationships #lifeadvice #moderndating https://youtu.be/s8Meiqz2WCE

How do you see yourself, and how do others see you? One summer, everything changed for me on the outside. On the inside? Not so much. This episode explores why we never really feel like we fit, even when the world says we do. If you’ve ever felt like you’re faking it, this one’s for you.

Things get interesting when you are all out of options #lifeadvice #relationships #thingsyoudontseecoming https://youtu.be/w7mzhNY5hgE

Discover why "boring" could be your most thrilling adventure yet! #ExcitingLife #moderndating #lifeadvice Check out the full episode here: https://youtu.be/w7mzhNY5hgE

What I learned from living in a hotel. #relationshipadvice #moderndating #lifeadvice https://youtu.be/w7mzhNY5hgE

I’ve been living in a hotel with my dog, Holly. Not on vacation, but stuck between homes, routines, and tourists in the elevator.  This week, I discuss holding it together when nothing feels familiar while pretending everything is fine on the air. I’m also realizing that "boring" might have been the best phase all along. 

When they're too stupid to realize what's happening until it's already done. How to figure out if that's you. #dumb #moderndating #lifeadvice

A quick detour before the next full episode drops. These are the moments listeners keep messaging me about. The parts where I apparently said something honest enough that it stuck. If you’re new, this is a good place to start. If you’ve been here since the beginning, thanks for staying.

You can date anyone you want, but why would you want to? #datingapps #relationships #lifeadvice https://youtu.be/wPKYJZ54K_c

Usefulish is all about the weird threads between the past and the present. The outdated customs, bizarre social rules, and how none of us are as evolved as we think. This is another show I created and I think it fits right in with the current Girls Can Tell vibe.  Curiosity, psychology, and how similar humans are to the way humans have always been. 

What happens in your mind when they tell you something you don't want to hear? #relationshipadvice #moderndating #lifeadvice

My dating app screening process filters out 98% of matches before the first date, and has a 100% success rate with those who make it through. I'll take you from swipes to relationships, how I protect my time and why being picky at 50 is so important. 15 minutes on the reality of dating when you know what you want.