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Jealousy Is Trying to Tell You Something
Most people believe that jealousy indicates something is wrong with them, that secure, emotionally healthy individuals don't experience it, and the goal is to move past it entirely. This episode argues the other side. Jealousy isn't some character flaw, and dismissing it because someone convinced y…
There's Always Going to Be Something
A listener called in about something she couldn't stop doing even though she could see it happening. She'd been telling herself she'd get serious about dating again once she hit a goal. This episode is to anyone else who keeps moving the finish line.
I Already Used AI on This Show. Nobody Noticed
A few months ago I ran an episode of this podcast using a cloned version of my own voice. Nobody noticed. Not one message. Not one comment. This episode is about what that means for radio, for podcasts, for the voicemail sitting on your phone right now in someone's voice you completely trust. At se…
I Know Exactly What You're Doing
The profiles have gotten worse. Not slightly, significantly. The Instagram handle in the serious relationship bio. The wrong age that somehow always gets entered younger. The AI bio with the em dashes in it. The skyline that doesn't exist. The woman who liked you first and spent the conversation ta…
You Filtered Me Out Before You Knew Me
In this episode, I share the conversation that almost never happened: a rematch with a clear political filter that put me in the ‘no’ category. She pushed past it anyway, and what unfolded forced me to confront my own label-based shortcuts, like the flight attendant rule and almost swiping left on …
Why It Wont Work Out This Time
When you're just waiting for them to disappear #relationshipadvice #moderndating #datingover50 Full Episode https://f.mtr.cool/evcbfzmwbn
You Keep Swiping on People You Don't Care About
You're still on the apps. Still swiping and responding. But something shifted and you know it. The curiosity and patience is gone. You're dismissing people in thirty seconds over things that don't mean anything, and calling it standards. It's burnout. And the problem with staying on the apps when y…
You Aren't Lonely Enough Yet
When being alone really starts to pay off #relationshipadvice #moderndating #datingover50 Full Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/2VqygrG1QrzIokdNFZIveb?si=U7cMxKEMQK68bpcqDcqxhQ&context=spotify%3Ashow%3A2DFGqBQLbCS6xvtSGBNGv1
Why You're Alone
Just because you're alone doesn't mean it's forever. #relationshipadvice #datingover50 #onlinedating Full Episode https://f.mtr.cool/teqaaddsdt
You Can Be Alone But Not Lonely
Is anyone really okay with being alone? #onlinedating #relationshipadvice #datingover50
Are You Alone or Lonely?
Are you going to be alone the rest of your life? #relationshipadvice #datingover50 #onlinedating
Is Anyone Really Okay Being Alone?
Being alone can feel peaceful, until something reminds you what connection actually feels like. This episode explores the difference between being okay alone and getting used to it.
Never Give Up
Don't give up yet! Listen to this first #relationshipadvice #moderndating #datingover50 Full Episode https://f.mtr.cool/ctwwwcfadq
What The First Year is Really Like
What the first year is actually like #relationshipadvice #datingover50 #loveadvice Full Episode https://f.mtr.cool/luqnesxydu
Fifty.
Episode 50. One year. I didn't think this show would make it this far. Today I'm not teaching anything or making a case for a position, I'm just talking to you directly. What solo podcasting actually costs, what I got wrong, what kept me going, and where things honestly stand.
How Are You Surprised They Cheated?
You thought they wouldn't cheat, until they did. You should have seen this coming #moderndating #datingover50 #relationshipadvice #datingapps Full Episode https://f.mtr.cool/xgqijvhbxw
Don't Think Someone Won't Do That
If you think someone can't or won't do something just because it's not allowed, think again. #relationshipadvice #datingapps #moderndating #onlinedating Full Episode https://f.mtr.cool/vnwehrzlnj
People Will Do Anything If They Think They Can Get Away With It
Don't ever say "they can't do that", because they CAN and they Will #relationshipadvice #datingover50 #moderndatingFull Episode https://f.mtr.cool/yltqjzaajs
People Will Do Anything If They Think They Can Get Away With It
Most people assume the rules protect them. Until the day they realize rules only matter when someone has the power to enforce them.This episode is about the moment you realize the world doesn’t operate the way you were told it does.
The Real Reason They Say They Aren't Ready
Are they saying they're not ready? It might not be for the reason you think #relationshipadvice #moderndating #datingover50 Full Episode https://f.mtr.cool/qilvqbqjyd
Why They're Ready, Just Not For You
What not being ready really means, and you're not going to like it. #relationshipadvice #datingover50advice #moderndating
Waiting to Be Ready Is How You Stay Alone
"I’m not ready” sounds mature, responsible, and self-aware. But what if it’s just a softer way of saying no? In this episode, I unpack what readiness actually means, when waiting is wise, when it’s avoidance, and why nobody ever reaches a point of being fully healed before love.
Your Ex is Talking About You
Your ex has a lot to say about you, and it's all bullshit! Find out why this happens, and if you can change it in time on this episode. #relationshipadvice #moderndating #datingover50
You Got The Breakup Wrong
You think you know how it ended, but the stories don't match up? I'll explain what's going on with this confusing situation and who's right! #relationships #moderndating #relationshipadvice