This isn't really about concerts.
It's about what people choose to put at the center of their identity, and what that secretly tells you about compatibility.
After decades in radio, playing in bands, working backstage, standing onstage, and watching live music from every possible angle, I've come to a conclusion that surprises almost everyone. It's also one of the fastest reasons I'll swipe left on a dating profile.
Why?
Because "I love live music" often isn't describing a hobby, it's revealing a mindset.
In this episode, I talk about Lollapalooza, dating profiles, getting older, nostalgia, identity, and why the things people proudly advertise about themselves aren't always the things they think they're communicating.
You may completely disagree with my conclusion. That's fine. The more interesting question is whether you're judging dating profiles by what people say, or by what those choices reveal.
If you've ever wondered what someone else's profile says about them, or what yours might be saying without you realizing it, this episode is for you.
