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I did sixty episodes of this podcast without ever showing my face. Then I turned on a camera and everything changed overnight. Comments, DMs, strangers feeling like they knew me — none of it happened for fourteen months and then all of it happened at once. This episode is about why presence does something that photos and audio never can, what it means for your dating profile, and why the thirty seconds of video you haven't posted yet might be the only thing standing between you and a connection. Video versions of the weekly podcast are available on: YouTube (https://youtube.com/@trenterikson?si=N_E7ILngSm6iLKHC) Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/2DFGqBQLbCS6xvtSGBNGv1?si=VvT5-qwFRfi_AyQaspTeRg) And often on: Tiktok (https://www.tiktok.com/@trenterikson?_r=1&_t=ZT-97HwB8sUENJ) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/trenterikson?igsh=aGtwM2NrbWduZG80) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/share/18EsxKFtgB/) X (https://x.com/TrentErikson) Make sure to …

If you can't see there's an idiot in the room, you're the idiot! #relationshipadvice #moderndating #datingover50

This might just be the make or break moment of the whole relationship #relationshipadvice #moderndating #datingover50

I'll Bet They're Really Into Pickleball, Aren't They? They Aren't #relationshipadvice #moderndating #datingover50

You Won't Hear This Anywhere #relationshipadvice #datingover50 #moderndating

I've finally had it. This one's a little different. Shirtless showdowns, pickleball pansies, Wimbledon-level tennis jags on a public court, scooter shits, absurdly loud cars, and industrial-strength playground blunts. Tune in for a completely reasonable and measured discussion. Obviously. If you'd rather see the video version, check it out here: https://youtu.be/U_4YlQPOqWg Or here: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DFGqBQLbCS6xvtSGBNGv1?si=A2hfflj2RJCcM3pYPp4Umw

I walk my dog Holly through the same Chicago park four to six times a day. After months of watching the same characters perform the same nonsense, I've finally had enough. In this episode: shirtless workout guys, pickleball fanatics, Wimbledon-level tennis players on crooked public courts, scooter kids treating sidewalks like racetracks, absurdly loud cars, and a man rolling industrial-strength blunts next to a playground. A completely reasonable and measured discussion. Obviously. #relationshipadvice #datingover50 #moderndating

If your conversations die after a couple back and forths, this will explain why that happens, and how to fix it. #relationshipadvice #datingover50 #moderndating

How to tell if you can make it work, or if it's just not going to happen. #relationshipadvice #datingover50 #moderndating

Getting sick of people wasting your time on the dating apps? Here's how to stop it. #relationshipadvice #moderndating #datingover50

Don't you think you've had too many conversations that were a complete waste of your time? Here's how to make sure that never happens again. #relationshipadvice #datingover50 #moderndating

Identify immediately if something is real #relationshipadvice #datingover50 #moderndating

You think you've found the person you've been looking for, now make sure it's real. #relationshipadvice #datingover50 #moderndating

Most people on dating apps can answer a question. Almost nobody can actually play. This episode is about the difference and why it's the only thing I'm still looking for. #relationshipadvice #datingover50 #moderndating

Most people on dating apps can answer a question. Almost nobody can actually play. This episode is about the difference and why it's the only thing I'm still looking for. Check out the video version on YouTube and Spotify! Or just listen to the audio version, gramps.

Why they keep things from you, just long enough #relationshipadvice #moderndating #datingover50

There might be a reason they disappeared you never thought of #relationshipadvice #moderndating #datingover50

Just when you think things are going great, they say this... #relationshipadvice #moderndating #datingover50

What's the things you hope they never find out? #relationshipadvice #moderndating #datingover50

She was smart, funny, attractive, and easy to talk to. Days of genuine connection that felt like something real. And then she mentioned something that changed everything. This episode is about the information people strategically withhold in early dating, the specific details that would change everything for the other person if disclosed upfront. Some of it is serious, some of it is ridiculous, and all of it is real. Things that belong in your bio but somehow never make it there. Get in touch with us, send us a message, or leave us a voicemail on the website (http://www.girlscantellpodcast.com)  

She was smart, funny, attractive, and easy to talk to. Days of genuine connection that felt like something real. And then she mentioned something that changed everything. This episode is about the information people strategically withhold in early dating, the specific details that would change everything for the other person if disclosed upfront. Some of it is serious, some of it is ridiculous, and all of it is real. Things that belong in your bio but somehow never make it there. Get in touch with us, send us a message, or leave us a voicemail on the website (http://www.girlscantellpodcast.com)  

She was smart, funny, attractive, and easy to talk to. Days of genuine connection that felt like something real. And then she mentioned something that changed everything. #relationshipadvice #moderndating #datingapps

She was smart, funny, attractive, and easy to talk to. Days of genuine connection that felt like something real. And then she mentioned something that changed everything. This episode is about the information people strategically withhold in early dating, the specific details that would change everything for the other person if disclosed upfront. Some of it is serious, some of it is ridiculous, and all of it is real. Things that belong in your bio but somehow never make it there. Get in touch with us, send us a message, or leave us a voicemail on the website (http://www.girlscantellpodcast.com)  

What if you never let them find out? #relationshipadvice #datingover50 #moderndating