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Why You Can't Find Love
Dec. 11, 2025

Why You Can't Find Love

How to Find Love #moderndating #datingapps #relationships

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Everyone's Dating Younger (So Who's Left for Us?)
Dec. 8, 2025

Everyone's Dating Younger (So Who's Left for Us?)

This episode breaks down why the dating pool feels smaller than ever, what happens when you have to be better than someone's already good life, and how to handle age gap relationships. Plus, a listener question about dating younger women.

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How to Find Someone Who Likes You
Dec. 6, 2025

How to Find Someone Who Likes You

Here's why you might never find someone using a dating app and what to do instead #moderndating #datingapps #lifeadvice

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Is Your Someone is Out There?
Dec. 3, 2025

Is Your Someone is Out There?

If you're out there on the apps, you need to hear this week's episode! We explain why you can't find your person and how to turn things around. We'll have you in a relationship with someone great before Santa comes. #moderndating #datingapps #relationshipadvice https://youtu.be/XmSksNcwcpk

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Buried in the Pile: Why Dating Apps Make Everyone Disposable
Dec. 2, 2025

Buried in the Pile: Why Dating Apps Make Everyone Disposable

Dating apps promised unlimited options. Instead, most of us got ghosting, burnout, and five half-assed chats at once. This week, we're getting deep into why good people can’t focus on one person, and how choice overload means you’re always one swipe away from being replaced. It's not something you'…

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Does Time Actually Speed Up?
Nov. 28, 2025

Does Time Actually Speed Up?

How to appreciate the moment you're in #relationships #moderndating #advice full episode here https://f.mtr.cool/gympkjcyvf

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How to Play Hard to Get
Nov. 25, 2025

How to Play Hard to Get

Why you haven't lived a day in your life #advice #relationships #moderndating get the full episode here https://f.mtr.cool/hauncyygev

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Why You Only Miss Relationships After They End (And How to Be Present Before It’s Too Late)
Nov. 25, 2025

Why You Only Miss Relationships After They End (And How to Be Present…

Ever wonder why we only recognize the best moments after they’ve slipped by?This episode dives into the ache of missing wonderful chapters, even as you’re living them. From leaving behind messy apartments and old relationships to the science of nostalgia, regret, and derealization.It’s all …

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You Aren't Going to Want to Miss This
Nov. 23, 2025

You Aren't Going to Want to Miss This

How You Hold You Back #advice #lifeadvice #moderndatingFull episode https://f.mtr.cool/ahanqbykqs

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Feeling Like a Fraud Can Free You
Nov. 23, 2025

Feeling Like a Fraud Can Free You

Have you ever felt like a fraud? Here's why. #moderndating #lifeadvice #datingover50

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You Can't Tell Anybody...
Nov. 20, 2025

You Can't Tell Anybody...

They don't want you to know you have a way out #relationshipadvice #moderndating #advicehttps://youtu.be/s8Meiqz2WCE

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Go Big or Go Home
Nov. 19, 2025

Go Big or Go Home

You're letting an 8th grader tell you what to do #relationships #lifeadvice #moderndatinghttps://youtu.be/s8Meiqz2WCE

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The Perception Gap: Why You Never Feel Like You Belong
Nov. 18, 2025

The Perception Gap: Why You Never Feel Like You Belong

How do you see yourself, and how do others see you? One summer, everything changed for me on the outside. On the inside? Not so much.This episode explores why we never really feel like we fit, even when the world says we do. If you’ve ever felt like you’re faking it, this one’s for you.

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Everyone Loves a Comeback
Nov. 16, 2025

Everyone Loves a Comeback

Things get interesting when you are all out of options #lifeadvice #relationships #thingsyoudontseecominghttps://youtu.be/w7mzhNY5hgE

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Being Boring Never Looked so Good
Nov. 13, 2025

Being Boring Never Looked so Good

Discover why "boring" could be your most thrilling adventure yet! #ExcitingLife #moderndating #lifeadviceCheck out the full episode here: https://youtu.be/w7mzhNY5hgE

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I Live in a Hotel, so You Don't Have To
Nov. 10, 2025

I Live in a Hotel, so You Don't Have To

What I learned from living in a hotel. #relationshipadvice #moderndating #lifeadvicehttps://youtu.be/w7mzhNY5hgE

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If You're Bored, Then You're Boring
Nov. 9, 2025

If You're Bored, Then You're Boring

I’ve been living in a hotel with my dog, Holly. Not on vacation, but stuck between homes, routines, and tourists in the elevator. This week, I discuss holding it together when nothing feels familiar while pretending everything is fine on the air. I’m also realizing that "boring" might have been…

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Hate to Say I told You So
Nov. 5, 2025

Hate to Say I told You So

When they're too stupid to realize what's happening until it's already done. How to figure out if that's you. #dumb #moderndating #lifeadvice

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The Best of GCT (So Far)
Nov. 4, 2025

The Best of GCT (So Far)

A quick detour before the next full episode drops. These are the moments listeners keep messaging me about. The parts where I apparently said something honest enough that it stuck.If you’re new, this is a good place to start. If you’ve been here since the beginning, thanks for staying.

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You Don't Know if You Don't Ask
Nov. 1, 2025

You Don't Know if You Don't Ask

You can date anyone you want, but why would you want to? #datingapps #relationships #lifeadvicehttps://youtu.be/wPKYJZ54K_c

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Usefulish: So, You Wanna be a Cowboy?
Oct. 30, 2025

Usefulish: So, You Wanna be a Cowboy?

Usefulish is all about the weird threads between the past and the present. The outdated customs, bizarre social rules, and how none of us are as evolved as we think. This is another show I created and I think it fits right in with the current Girls Can Tell vibe.  Curiosity, psychology, and how sim…

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I'll Bet You Cant Have Just One
Oct. 28, 2025

I'll Bet You Cant Have Just One

What happens in your mind when they tell you something you don't want to hear? #relationshipadvice #moderndating #lifeadvice

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The Dating App Vetting Process and Why 98% of You Won't Make It Past Texting
Oct. 27, 2025

The Dating App Vetting Process and Why 98% of You Won't Make It Past …

My dating app screening process filters out 98% of matches before the first date, and has a 100% success rate with those who make it through. I'll take you from swipes to relationships, how I protect my time and why being picky at 50 is so important. 15 minutes on the reality of dating when you kno…

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Why You Can Never go Back
Oct. 26, 2025

Why You Can Never go Back

Why You Can Never go Back #moderndating #datingover50 #lifeadvice https://youtu.be/8wns5T26wwI?si=IXID7n03z39fyJqT

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